In 2000 a movie called “What Women Want” starring Mel Gibson came out. After a freak accident he was able to hear women’s thoughts, a super power that I often wish I had. It’s hard to know what every person wants because each of us are so different and in various stages of life.

She is beautiful. She’s fly. Her convo is smart, she laughs at your jokes. You think there is a real connection. You want to know/see/feel more. You decide it is time to capitalize on this encounter. You shake the jitters to the floor, and pose your question: “would you like to go out sometime?”

During most of my conversations with my girlfriends we discuss dating, relationships, and of course the horror stories are always in the mix. Instead of focusing on the negative stories, I pulled together a list of things that men are doing right. If you stick to this list you will have a better chance of getting that second, third, and beyond date. 

In the era of “Netflix and chill” it seems like nowadays, dating and courting is a lost art.  It seems as though the fellas are putting in less effort to impress a woman during the pursuit of her and women are becoming either accepting of the lackluster approaches or fed up to the point where they don’t even want to date anymore.

Ah, the life of a bachelor.  It doesn’t get any better.  This is the best time of your life.  Your bank account is looking nice.  You and your boys hit up the club or bar every weekend.  At the drop of a dime, you hop on a plane and party in any and every city you desire.  And the most important of them all, you’re getting laid by an abundance of women!

Women…..can’t live with them……can’t live without them.

Thank God for women.  What would this world be without them? Well, there actually wouldn’t be a world now that I think about it.  Women are the creators of life.  They’re the nurturers. They’re the first love of all of us.  Our first bond.  They mold and groom us.  There is nothing stronger than a woman’s love. In short, we can’t live life without them.  And who would want to?

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